Marriage & Family Life Restoration
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Restauración Matrimonial y Familiar
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Restauración Matrimonial y Familiar
Struggling in your marriage?
The Third Option offers a lifeline for spouses still hoping for a better future. Join a supportive community online, and learn skills that have healed thousands of difficult marriage situations. Tuesday nights, 6:30 – 8:30pm.
Questions? Contact Don at donflecky@gmail.com or
(714) 240-4245
or send an email to: MFLM@sbdiocese.org
Need to talk?
Priests are people, too! They grew up in families, they still have families, they shepherd their parish families, and they know the struggles! Sometimes you just need a wise and holy priest to listen and maybe offer some words of understanding, guidance and encouragement. The Mercedarian friars are available for free pastoral consultation appointments. During your appointment, the priest will offer the guidance of the Catholic Church, a listening ear, and pastoral care. Be assured of confidentiality** during your priestly consultation. Visit: https://www.nonnatus.org/speak-with-a-priest.html
The U.S. bishops formal statement: Create in Me a Clean Heart: A Pastoral Response to Pornography (en Español)
The Angelic Warfare Confraternity
A supernatural fellowship of men and women dedicated to pursuing chastity under the patronage of St. Thomas Aquinas and the Blessed Virgin Mary. The Confraternity is an official apostolate of the Dominican Order.
Catholic in Recovery meetings overlap 12-step spirituality with the sacramental life of the Catholic Church. A nationwide ministry founded in San Diego, they are open to all seeking freedom from addiction, compulsions, and unhealthy attachments. Click here for their current meeting schedule.
Reclaim Sexual Health
Science-based, Catholic resources for those impacted by pornography, masturbation, or other unhealthy sexual behaviors. Offers an anonymous online recovery program for pornography users and spouses of pornography users. Also has information for parents about protecting their children from pornography.
Integrity Restored
Provides education, training, encouragement, and resources to break free from pornography, heal relationships, and to assist parents in preventing and responding to pornography exposure which is so devastating in the lives of our children. They are also a resource that trains and helps clergy in assisting families at the parish level, so that the domestic church truly becomes what it is, the human space in which we encounter Christ. In addition, information is provided on the Integrity Restored Recovery Program, a comprehensive recovery program for Catholics struggling with pornography addiction and their loved ones.
Exodus 90 (for men)
A ninety-day challenge of prayer, asceticism, and fraternity that is designed to help men attain freedom from sexual sin or other struggles. The program was developed at a seminary and today is transforming the lives of thousands of Catholic men across the country. In Exodus 90, men form small teams to go through the challenge together and support one another as they strive to grow in virtue.
Help for Men and Women: Catholic Support Groups and Recovery Programs, Help for Parents, Help for Priests, Internet Filtering Tools, Advocacy and Education Resources, DVDs, Books and Other Print Resources
Bishop James Conley, First Things: "Ariel Castro’s Addiction" - on how pornographic addiction is powerful and destructive
Fr. Christopher Kubat, Seedlings Column: "Porn"
Fr. Christopher Kubat, Seedlings Column: "There is Help"
For more resources: https://www.usccb.org/topics/marriage-and-family-life-ministries/help-for-those-struggling
One of the most devastating things a wife can find out is that her husband has a problem with pornography/sexual addiction/infidelity. This discovery can lead to feelings of betrayal, guilt, anger, frustration, and shame. Too often, wives go overlooked and unsupported when faced with these feelings. If you find yourself in this position, you don't have to go through it alone.
Resources:
hopesgarden.com/betrayal-trauma-support
Find a Local Betrayal Trauma Therapist/Coach/Specialist:
apsats.org/specialists#!directory/map
https://www.renewlifetherapy.com/
Podcasts:
Own Your Revival Podcast – Episode with Rachael Tvrdy on Betrayal Trauma
The Bridegroom Speaks Podcast
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-bridegroom-speaks/id1753422415
Betrayal Recovery Radio Podcast